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Douching without the faff: a beginner’s guide to getting ready
If you are thinking about douching before anal sex, start with this: it is optional, and a complicated routine is not the price of admission.
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Swinging without the stereotypes: how to talk about what fits
Swinging can mean different things to different people. This guide is about the conversations and agreements that matter before you explore it.
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Top, bottom or vers? Finding your place without picking a box
Top, bottom and vers are shorthand for what someone may enjoy. Use them to start a conversation, not to decide who someone is.
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Twink, otter, bear: what gay scene labels mean (and what they don’t)
Twink, otter and bear are playful bits of gay-scene shorthand — useful to some, limiting to others. Think loose labels, not body rules.
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